Yes, yes, people are such snowflakes now, who would have been offended by for example being called a communist or gay in America in the 1950s? There is absolut

Yes, yes, people are such snowflakes now, who would have been offended by for example being called a communist or gay in America in the 1950s? There is absolutely a dynamic of status anxiety to some of this, but to claim that this is all that is happening amounts to asking some people to be bad bayesians. So yes I don't want tribal society. But you can't privatise the public problem of people who are organizing to actually physically harm you, where they are, as a personal moral failing of being insufficiently stoic. Political action rather than spiritual retreat is needed.