They are adults. They can make their own decisions. I'm not going to tell them what to do. I tried to teach them the right things to do when they were growing u

They are adults. They can make their own decisions. I'm not going to tell them what to do. I tried to teach them the right things to do when they were growing up. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. They have their agency and have chosen the path they want to take.