>These things are not at all equivalent. That's why I didn't say they were. I was challenging you to explain the moral difference and you haven't yet answered

>These things are not at all equivalent. That's why I didn't say they were. I was challenging you to explain the moral difference and you haven't yet answered that. Worse, you're not pretending that your coffee shop meeting isn't an interview, and is for their benefit: >How else will they know they want to live with my family? It's fine if you want to argue against the standard background check, but you need to actually articulate what is objectionable about it, and have some awareness of the similarities to the screening that you consider necessary.