If we aren't complaining about interviews where we got the offer and turned it down, there's a serious risk we're experiencing "sour grapes". Every interview I

If we aren't complaining about interviews where we got the offer and turned it down, there's a serious risk we're experiencing "sour grapes". Every interview I failed was an opportunity to get better. If it feels arbitrary and you don't get the job... you may just be below the bar. No shame in that... buy there's definitely shame in this sadly common framing attack on the concept of the tech screen.