I think you're in a bad place if things have devolved to a herd-metality us-vs-them. But I find well-aimed questions can often derail attempts to railroad a si

I think you're in a bad place if things have devolved to a herd-metality us-vs-them. But I find well-aimed questions can often derail attempts to railroad a situation from a position of power, and it can be very uncomfortable to field those questions in an in-person setting. Much less so remotely.