> Why calling someone by their preferred names and pronouns is so difficult is beyond me. Read me again. If someone wants to be called he or she I have no prob

> Why calling someone by their preferred names and pronouns is so difficult is beyond me. Read me again. If someone wants to be called he or she I have no problem with that. What is totally ridiculous is coming with things like hir or xeir which are made-up pronouns. The real assholes are the people coming with this crap and force them in other people throat. The last part of your post is disconnected from reality. It’s not my job to contrive my speech to avoid pronouns in languages where they are mandatory. You also contradict yourself since you used "I" a lot in a sentence advocating the removal of pronouns.