> am I homophobic? Maybe, yes, a little bit? At the very least it's worth considering that possibility -- it's not necessarily any slight against you: most pe

> am I homophobic? Maybe, yes, a little bit? At the very least it's worth considering that possibility -- it's not necessarily any slight against you: most people were raised in cultures that are at least a bit casually homophobic, and it's hard to ask anyone to completely transcend the culture you were born into. On the other hand, maybe you're reacting negatively to the faux-obsequiousness, the pretending to be subservient and helpful while actually obstructing and frustrating the customer's desires? Does the female shop assistant also annoy you? In the same way or a different way? Maybe reflect on why you feel uncomfortable?