Do not mooch off your girlfriend. Doing so will only take your existing problems with being financially responsible and inject them into your relationship. If y

Do not mooch off your girlfriend. Doing so will only take your existing problems with being financially responsible and inject them into your relationship. If you can figure out a way to pay back the money, pay it back. If you can't, don't prolong the process and drag your personal relationships into it. Be honest with the people you care for about your situation but avoid borrowing from them. Other than that, I think I am on the same page with Duff. You have a responsibility to your children, whether you have them already or not.