Yup, and what happens when you take one entity that has qualities you dislike and generalize it to all entities of the same color? You get people hearing that

Yup, and what happens when you take one entity that has qualities you dislike and generalize it to all entities of the same color? You get people hearing that OOP sucks, and they start to have fears and hatred towards it, thinking that all OO and every single idea and concept related to it is bad. This is called stereotyping, and it's not productive to bring into a technical conversation. Even inside FP it exists, ever saw a Scheme programer and a Haskell programmer debate? They'd go on forever about whose the one true Functional Programmer.