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Why does using Tinder to meet someone suddenly negate meeting the family and doing these "background checks"?
by have_faith 6y ago
Why does using Tinder to meet someone suddenly negate meeting the family and doing these "background checks"?
- noisy_boy 6y agoBecause the "background checks" happen upfront in case of arranged marriages. That way there isn't any emotional issues in case they fail.
- celticninja 6y agoI mean that is absolute rubbish. There are plenty of arranged marriages that fail because e.g one partner was gay and hid it from their family. No 'background' checks prevent it and there is plenty of fallout.
- noisy_boy 6y agoNobody claimed that background checks are foolproof. They check for "background" e.g. is the family known in the neighbourhood for bad conduct - they are not likely to reveal stuff one may be hiding from everyone else.