Try to think about your own upbringing. I’m very biased against children because my own parents didn’t really get joy from their kids and were miserable and unl

Try to think about your own upbringing. I’m very biased against children because my own parents didn’t really get joy from their kids and were miserable and unleashed their misery on day to day family life in various forms. Many people had a great family life growing up and conceptually don’t even entertain thoughts like that. If you guys didn’t grow up in a dysfunctional miserable family you are probably already way more qualified than many people who simply lack the experience (literal thousands of hours spent in a quality family). Start with that assessment, you have most of the facts about yourself to make the call - we don’t. Again, people that had positive family experience will not ponder if kids will cause chaos, because well, they never felt that way in their own families. You and I ponder it, which means you better dig into what’s behind that question.