your entire argument seems to be based on parents wanting to stay home and raise their children. Some might, a lot of people don't want to do this. If both pare

your entire argument seems to be based on parents wanting to stay home and raise their children. Some might, a lot of people don't want to do this. If both parents want to work and have a career and/or a job that isn't a fulltime nanny, I don't see how the pay component you are arguing about is at all relevant?