Moved to “nicer” areas where 35-45 is first kid for woman. The man is at least 10 years older. Men aren't having kids until they're 45-55 then? That seems ext

Moved to “nicer” areas where 35-45 is first kid for woman. The man is at least 10 years older. Men aren't having kids until they're 45-55 then? That seems extreme -- how do they find the energy to deal with young kids at that age?