I agree, I have more fear of the pain and suffering of a gradual (or not so gradual) decline in mental and physical abilities that leads to old age and death. W

I agree, I have more fear of the pain and suffering of a gradual (or not so gradual) decline in mental and physical abilities that leads to old age and death. Which of course could be a complete waste of time to worry about if I happen to get hit by a bus tomorrow and die instantly! But the other real fear the article mentions which I also agree with is the fear of missing out. Will my significant other wither away in sorrow, or will they move on and find happiness with a new partner? Will my loved ones left behind remain financially stable without me - did I do enough to provide for them in the time that I had? It's easy to say "What do I care what goes on after I'm gone, I'll be dead!", but I have trouble convincing myself of that when it comes to loved ones.