I mean an interesting question and to your point is: how have wars been won in the past decades - or not been won. To me it seems that almost all wars of the p

I mean an interesting question and to your point is: how have wars been won in the past decades - or not been won. To me it seems that almost all wars of the past decades transformed into: “irrespective of your weapon superiority - it will all cumulate into asymmetric partisan wars that drag on for years and cannot be won”. In the end it almost feels like “whoever drops more ordinances on the civil population to irrevocably break their morale may come out as a winner a bit more”. How can wars be realistically be won today?