Yeah, you're right. I guess there is a fine line between "just do it" and "measure twice, cut once". Of course you can just put your head down and follow the

Yeah, you're right. I guess there is a fine line between "just do it" and "measure twice, cut once". Of course you can just put your head down and follow the traditional path, and end up fine - with kids, house, etc. But was that the path best for you? Was it the most fulfilling path? Shouldn't overthink that, but also should spend some effort to think about it.