Then the ones who don't want to help a disabled person, can design their place to be accessible without help (and perhaps at the same time explain their motivat

Then the ones who don't want to help a disabled person, can design their place to be accessible without help (and perhaps at the same time explain their motivations so that I'll know to never visit their venue). In other words, you got slightly confused. I didn't say that all places should be not accessible to disabled people. If I make a place I'd definitely try to make it accessible. However, I did say that if someone can't make such a place, they'll have to take into account that the human thing to do is to personally help disabled people get in it. If they won't do it I'm sure socially media would know how to handle them.