So in effect this says more about how uncritical modern people are of themselves and others than it does anything about the practice of modern marriage, that ma

So in effect this says more about how uncritical modern people are of themselves and others than it does anything about the practice of modern marriage, that many many people blindly march into relationships and commitments they don't fully understand but regardless pursue an abstraction of. Reifying that from the situation of marriage, this is true in a number of domains in life.