> You absolutely can marry the right person, and people do it all the time TFA begins by building the strawman that marriage is about finding the person who is

> You absolutely can marry the right person, and people do it all the time TFA begins by building the strawman that marriage is about finding the person who is "perfect for you". There is no one perfect for you - not even yourself, which is why people grow. Marriage is about finding the person who shares the same core values and goals, and who is willing to work with you to build a whole that is greater than the sum of its parts.