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If you are in an abusive marriage or one that permanently prevents happiness for you, get out. If you have kids, that goes double, not least because you don’t
by dgreensp 6y ago
If you are in an abusive marriage or one that permanently prevents happiness for you, get out. If you have kids, that goes double, not least because you don’t want to be an example to your kids of how to lead a resigned or down-trodden existence.
- Ancapistani 6y agoI've said a lot in this thread that's positive toward marriage, and am generally a very "pro-marriage" person. I completely and wholehearted agree with this. If your marriage is not a source of strength for you, you need to find a way to make it that. If your partner tears you down emotionally, you're being held back. If your partner physically harms you - get out. Now. Do whatever it takes, up to and including walking out the door without knowing what you're going to eat or where you're going to stay.