> Today people too often think that partying, casual sex or other selfish pursuits will make them happy, but I suspect it has the exact opposite effect. Finding

> Today people too often think that partying, casual sex or other selfish pursuits will make them happy, but I suspect it has the exact opposite effect. Finding someone who isn't perfect but who you can love and dedicate yourself to, or having children and giving everything you can for them, these are things that can bring us true meaning. That's just some gibberish that married people say; or people who were looking for reasons to live and are later trapped in a marriage trying to explain their existence. I picked the former and I have a reason to wake up every morning: Doing the former.