One of the comments on the original article is spot-on: > Sometimes you get lucky, sometimes you don't. Sometimes your hard work pays off, sometimes it doesn'

One of the comments on the original article is spot-on: > Sometimes you get lucky, sometimes you don't. Sometimes your hard work pays off, sometimes it doesn't. Marry a partner, someone with the same values and same dreams, someone you can be yourself with, someone you can count on no matter what, someone who makes you laugh, someone you can cry with, someone who overlooks your flaws while helping you to better yourself, someone you can grow old with. This is how loves matters.