Thanks for the comment and link, and your moderating influence. I hoped my comment was a gentle mention that things can be OK and why. But some see that as se

Thanks for the comment and link, and your moderating influence. I hoped my comment was a gentle mention that things can be OK and why. But some see that as selling snake oil. I hope >1 POV is allowed, and hopefully I can learn better. Maybe my main mistake was my follow-up reply saying someone else's comment was "cheap", when I might have said more like just "with downvotes, thoughtfully considered comments are appreciated", to be less flame-y, and left it at that. Anyway, thank you again for the link and comment.