i used to get straight to the point, but people find this offensive, like i am just using them as a google instead of treating them like a fellow human being o

i used to get straight to the point, but people find this offensive, like i am just using them as a google instead of treating them like a fellow human being once i establish rapport and recognize our mutual humanity, then future engagements i can get straight to the point without people just feeling used of course some people get offended by the preliminary niceties, but they are in the minority, so best to bet on the common case in absence of further knowledge