True. From some books I've gone through however, the act of making your partner happy often has the side effect of making yourself happy and the same act of mak

True. From some books I've gone through however, the act of making your partner happy often has the side effect of making yourself happy and the same act of making them happy tends to make them want to do things to make you happy. A lovely cycle. People tend to want to be "right" - and that usually means someone else is wrong. Not often a good way to build a loving relationship.