There is no "equilibrium" the universe is moving towards, it is just expanding, and the "intermediate masses" are getting more spread out the more the universe

There is no "equilibrium" the universe is moving towards, it is just expanding, and the "intermediate masses" are getting more spread out the more the universe expands. The expansion doesn't inhibit the propagation of gravity, it just makes the attraction between masses weaker and weaker the further they are apart, until they are so far apart that the space between them expands faster than the speed of light, at which moment they will no longer be able to interact with another, neither by light nor by gravity, and the contracting effect of gravity becomes weaker and weaker the larger the universe becomes. According to out current best cosmological model, Lambda-CDM (which, admittedly, is mostly a phenomenological model for things we only half understand, but still describes our current observations better than any competing model), gravity used to be the dominant force in the universe when it was smaller so that the masses were closer together until quite recently. But now it looks like the expansion, the "Lambda" term in "Lambda-CDM", the cosmological constant of general relativity, has become the dominant force in the universe, and the universe is slated to expand ever faster. It could start to contract if Lambda were closer to zero, but it currently doesn't look like it might move there. But then we don't know why Lambda it there at all and what causes it not to be zero in the first place, as everyone expected it to be until about two decades ago (Einstein himself thought of the introduction of the term into his theory as a blunder, as it would obviously be zero in any sane universe.)