> I don't really understand how you define "argue" such that you can completely avoid it while still admitting differences of opinion... I am not rconti, but f

> I don't really understand how you define "argue" such that you can completely avoid it while still admitting differences of opinion... I am not rconti, but for me there is a big difference as well between arguing and talking about a difference in opinion. Arguing for me is "fighting", being confrontative and aggressive, blaming and letting off steam. The other thing then would be a calm, collaborative and resolution-oriented talk about an issue. I personally had relationships with both kinds but can not really pin down why one relationship resulted in arguing and all others did not.