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I find most of the time when couples say they don't argue, the real reason is one is a doormat that let's the other get their way all the time. There's not much
by eloff 6y ago
I find most of the time when couples say they don't argue, the real reason is one is a doormat that let's the other get their way all the time. There's not much to argue about in that case. I don't want to say that's the case with you, as I know nothing of your marriage. It's just an observation.
- cecilpl2 6y agoThat's what my first marriage was like. I told myself it was a great relationship because we never argued, but really I just deferred to her on every decision and went out of my way to avoid any conflict.
- eloff 6y agoI'm glad to hear the qualifier "first" used in that case. Hope things are better for you now.
- rconti 6y agoI think that's fair. In our particular case, we're both pretty obliging people, and it works. If I was in a relationship with someone who was a 'taker', maybe I would have a hard time pushing back.