If you feel the need to resolve every petty squabble, no matter when, your relationship is in trouble anyways. If you think negotiating at least an understandi

If you feel the need to resolve every petty squabble, no matter when, your relationship is in trouble anyways. If you think negotiating at least an understanding to put an issue temporarily to rest before sleep and using sleep as an emotional weapon are the same thing - your relationship is REALLY in trouble. (And so is how you look at the world in general) It's perfectly OK to say "I think you're really wrong about this, but let's talk tomorrow. I'd just like to sleep". The healthy response there isn't "I WONT LET YOU SLEEP BEFORE YOU AGREE"