This! We never went to bed angry in 20 years - if we were angry we always “made peace“ before going to bed so we could sleep - and wake up - assured of our lo

This! We never went to bed angry in 20 years - if we were angry we always “made peace“ before going to bed so we could sleep - and wake up - assured of our love. Here you and us differ: If it‘s late we postpone finding a solution because we know we can pick it up the next day if it feels relevant. In an argument we never bring a list of former lapses. If something is relevant it has to be brought up, not collected.