If you offer compelling arguments for changing certain aspects of a country to be more similar to another country that handles things better (in your opinion),

If you offer compelling arguments for changing certain aspects of a country to be more similar to another country that handles things better (in your opinion), then I don't see the problem. Sure, some people will always be offended if you propose to change amything about their country, but many more people are open to suggestions for specific changes. Very few people, on the other hand, are actually proposing change just for the sake of "turning one country into another". If that were the case, then I would think it a very weird fascination too.