Full-time tech worker in Seattle in a stressful job, wife works full-time, one 9yo. We are going to get an Alexa or Google smart speaker to help maintain sched

Full-time tech worker in Seattle in a stressful job, wife works full-time, one 9yo. We are going to get an Alexa or Google smart speaker to help maintain schedules and screen-allowance timers. Maintaining a set schedule is key. We have tried white-boards, but they get messy with lots of other priorities we try to organize (shopping, garbage night, bills, etc).