Most suburbs don't have what you describe at all, I'm not sure why you're getting so defensive. I grew up in the suburbs myself, one with 250K people (arguably

Most suburbs don't have what you describe at all, I'm not sure why you're getting so defensive. I grew up in the suburbs myself, one with 250K people (arguably a small city), and it had nothing close to that density outside of the main street and waterfront area that accounted for maybe 10 blocks. Your claims just don't track.