Having a kid is not like having a dog. So don't use it. Before I have kids I read, I ask and the only thing I learn was that having a child is not easy. Actuall

Having a kid is not like having a dog. So don't use it. Before I have kids I read, I ask and the only thing I learn was that having a child is not easy. Actually is very very hard: they need you for fun, for food, for clothing, protection, guidance, role model, money, etc from the moment they are born till very late age. Your partner relationship is going to change and the new focus is the baby. A child is not a benefit is a person so you cant.really give them a value. For everyone means something different, for me it means giving an extra 200% so I can provide the best opportunities and I can spend the most time with him.