I totally agree it feels like there is a rise of a new morality. The only problem is it doesn't have the pressure valve of repentance and forgiveness like previ

I totally agree it feels like there is a rise of a new morality. The only problem is it doesn't have the pressure valve of repentance and forgiveness like previous Judeo-Christian religions, so once a sin is committed the only choice is excommunication. Joyless is exactly the right term for this sort of social fabric.