Yep, it’s just noise in the discussion, and doesn’t add any value other than putting the other person on defense mode. Proper discussions are difficult though,

Yep, it’s just noise in the discussion, and doesn’t add any value other than putting the other person on defense mode. Proper discussions are difficult though, but i learned that starting out with acknowledging positive things, and most certainly stick to facts, not attacking the people you’re talking with.