> Not being a jerk I don't like that word. It seems like subjective name-calling. One might say how they really feel at the risk of being a jerk, but that depe

> Not being a jerk I don't like that word. It seems like subjective name-calling. One might say how they really feel at the risk of being a jerk, but that depends on how the other party takes the feedback. I think a better rule is "Not being hostile".