I did not elect to have a child before considering the impact it would have on my livelihood. I have absolutely considered the impact that having a child will h

I did not elect to have a child before considering the impact it would have on my livelihood. I have absolutely considered the impact that having a child will have on my livelihood, as well as on my life in general! I'm merely asking for practical advice from other parents. Are you suggesting that if I've considered the impact that having a child would have on my livelihood, I should not ask anyone for advice? That's quite an odd position to take.