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Yeah, it feels kinda disrespectful since the author has no input on the thing. I guess if you really want to note how it's by a female author, you could have i
by Hamuko 6y ago
Yeah, it feels kinda disrespectful since the author has no input on the thing.
I guess if you really want to note how it's by a female author, you could have it as "Ms. George Eliot", although that seems rather tacky.
>It's also a bit sad that most English names are gendered.
Non-gendered names are actually pretty much illegal here, so the English way isn't really that crazy.
- TheSpiceIsLife 6y agoWhere is here in your context?
- Hamuko 6y agoFinland.
- narag 6y agoSome friends inscribed their child forty years ago, a month before the birth. It seems there was some kind of tax benefits that expired with the new year. They used the name Andrea. In Spain it's a female name, but they planned to argue that it's male in Italy and that they marked the wrong cell for the sex. In the end it was a girl, so no hassle, except her birthday is fake.
- unsupported 6y agoFun fact: Andrea comes from the Greek word andrós, which means man/male. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrea#Origin_of_the_name https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrea#Origin_of_the_name
- chrisseaton 6y agoWhat is their explanation for why they do this?
- Hamuko 6y agoI imagine it's to protect children from the Elon Musks of the world. There's a handful of rules that concern first names in Finland that allow to reject names that are bit "out there" so to speak. For example, there's such rejected first names as "Marihuana", "Avicii", "Kapteeni" (Captain), "Salaisuus" (Secret), "Noppa" (Dice), "Hoito Virhe" ("Medicial Malpractice" as first and last name) and "Sukka" (Sock). Guess the idea that giving a boy a girl's name can have a similar effect for the child as naming them "Sock".
- runarb 6y ago> I imagine it's to protect children from the Elon Musks of the world. Hade to look that up. He apparently named his son "X Æ A-12": https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-52557291 https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-52557291 . Will probably create some issues with future IT-systems. I know a "Jo Å" and he have trouble registering for services from time to time.
- Hamuko 6y agoIt's actually "X AE A-XII" now since "X Æ A-12" was against California law.
- buzer 6y agoI don't think neutral names are illegal, they are just rare. Names like Kaino, Rauni and Muisto have couple of registrations per year with quite equal distribution between genders (https://verkkopalvelu.vrk.fi/nimipalvelu/ https://verkkopalvelu.vrk.fi/nimipalvelu/).
- Hamuko 6y agoNimilaki defines that a first name can only be accepted if it's "become a standard for the same gender". https://www.finlex.fi/fi/laki/ajantasa/2017/20170946 https://www.finlex.fi/fi/laki/ajantasa/2017/20170946
- buzer 6y agoI think that means that you wouldn't be able to give such a name in cases where it has become a standard for the other gender, meaning it would be tricky to add new neutral names. It's also quite new additition so I don't think there are any cases that have went to administrative court yet. According to https://www.kotus.fi/kielitieto/nimisto/henkilonnimet/etu-_ja_sukunimilaki_lyhyesti https://www.kotus.fi/kielitieto/nimisto/henkilonnimet/etu-_j... the standard for same gender is 5 people that are alive, i.e. once 5 men and 5 women have that name, it could be given to either gender. Not sure what would happen if there was a huge imbalance though (like 1000 women with the name & 10 men). At least Rauni and Kaino have been granted to both genders after the law came in effect.
- stevekemp 6y agoIt is interesting that Finland makes available the name-database, allowing you to search for people with a specific forename, or surname. I remember when I moved to Finland and learned of this I immediately went to search for people with the same surname as myself. After that I looked for people called "Steve". Steve is an English name, and a male name at that. The female version would be "Stephany". Yet despite that you can see that less than 5, and more than 0, women were registered as "Steve" between 1980 and 1999: https://verkkopalvelu.vrk.fi/nimipalvelu/default.asp?L=3 https://verkkopalvelu.vrk.fi/nimipalvelu/default.asp?L=3 That doesn't mean they were permitted to be named that at birth of course, it is probably other immigrants such as myself. But oddly fascinating.
- Hamuko 6y ago>That doesn't mean they were permitted to be named that at birth of course, it is probably other immigrants such as myself. But oddly fascinating. There are exceptions in the name law when it comes to people who have "connections to foreign countries".