It's not like girls grow up in different houses/schools/families as boys do. Computers are equally around. You can argue if/how they are stimulated to play with

It's not like girls grow up in different houses/schools/families as boys do. Computers are equally around. You can argue if/how they are stimulated to play with computers rather then something else, and having role-models definitely plays a role. Moreover, it's a discussion if we should strive for equal opportunity or equal outcome. Some ideologies push for the latter, and (ironically) free will of those they try to support gets in the way.