> That was when I said to my wife: If we do not have children, we will move somewhere where there is a porch. The children who need love will find the porch. Th

> That was when I said to my wife: If we do not have children, we will move somewhere where there is a porch. The children who need love will find the porch. They will know how to find it. We will be as much parents as we want to be. I had a very similar experience growing up. Instead of Amiga, it was Atari. The common thread was that we both shared this very strange (at the time) interest in computers, he actually listened to me - a nobody kid, and he asked for absolutely nothing in return. Given that experience, I can say that if you have the porch and the inclination, consider being that adult. You have no idea the good you can do.