Was looking for this when I was typing that post up! Should have known it would be Malcom X. There's another great quote along the lines of "those concerned wit

Was looking for this when I was typing that post up! Should have known it would be Malcom X. There's another great quote along the lines of "those concerned with how something is said than what is said" that I can't seem to remember the source on either that is very relevant here too.