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I feel this is true with adult life in general. Drinking and going to bars is always the default social activity, particularly for young adults.
by QuixoticQuibit 6y ago
I feel this is true with adult life in general. Drinking and going to bars is always the default social activity, particularly for young adults.
- fireattack 6y agoI agree. I feel like tech industry in this regard probably is below the average of all professions.
- sneak 6y agoI am always surprised when people feel like you have to drink if you go hang out in bars. Order a coke and some cheese sticks and hang out with your drunk friends, it’s not an issue.
- zelly 6y agoI think being sober around drunk people is like going to a naked beach with your clothes on. It just doesn't feel right, and if you don't want to drug yourself up then you shouldn't want to be around people who are.
- Jach 6y agoIt won't feel right if you're trying to fit in the same way, because you fundamentally are lacking the necessary attributes to do so (drunkeness, lack of clothes), but that doesn't matter if you don't feel a need to fit in. If you have any interest in people-watching, or perhaps one might call such interests anthropologist tendencies, things are fine. Observe, interact and join conversation or events as you please. Besides, most people are multi-dimensional, even if you don't fit in on this thing, you might fit in on another axis. Why are you even with the group to begin with? Focusing on that will be more important for social bonding than focusing on joining or not in alcoholic drinks.
- voidpointercast 6y agoOr just abstain from groups, but that comes with its own costs
- novok 6y agoOr going to a normal beach with a hijab? If your friends can't respect you deciding not to drink, it's much like being uncomfortable with you going to the beach with them with a hijab.
- devdas 6y agoThat's due to a lack of social activities post work.