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That's fine, no one is trying to convince you. I personally have no stake at all in changing your mind, nor did I imply so. Don't feel threatened. I was just
by gm 18y ago
That's fine, no one is trying to convince you. I personally have no stake at all in changing your mind, nor did I imply so. Don't feel threatened.
I was just trying to say that people identify themselves with a viewpoint and then their ego silently but consistently defends the viewpoint since defeating the viewpoint diminishes the ego's self-worth. Reading an article, for example, then becomes an analysis, "friend or foe." It is either something to agree with and reinforce the ego's stance or something to attack since the ego is being threatened.
Anyway, too much psychobabble already...
- wallflower 18y agoWhen my Mom is trying to discuss something that she thinks I should be doing, I don't disagree, I always agree. It's kryptonite to parental worries. Statements like "if I truly wanted to be like that, I would be doing that. And since I'm not, it's obvious that I'm not committed"