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Getting angry for nothing is completely another topic. There is nothing to forgive then. Not forgiving does not mean you always think and remeber of. This yet
by trabant00 6y ago
Getting angry for nothing is completely another topic. There is nothing to forgive then.
Not forgiving does not mean you always think and remeber of. This yet another issue.
Not forgiving means just that. If anybody asks you if you forgave you answer no. Not that you despair every moment thinking about who wronged you when.
- sumtechguy 6y agoThe forgiveness is not always for them. It is sometimes for you. That was their point. Forgiveness is a part of a process to 'let go'. Not doing it ever can create distrust issues with total strangers. I have seen it a few times with my own eyes. I am a large believer in 'little things make big things'. Lots of little bad things can accumulate into one large bad thing. The opposite is also true. You can chose to have non-forgiveness in your life. That is your choice. I always ask myself do I want to be the happy dude at the retirement home talking about my good friends or the bitter cynical guy who holds a grudge. One dude I know still holds grudges from the mid 80s. He lives them over and over. Because he can not let go. It has harmed him in every aspect of his life.