> When do I just call it quits? Ten years ago. The second best time is right now. You do not have to take abuse from them because they are family. "the past is

> When do I just call it quits? Ten years ago. The second best time is right now. You do not have to take abuse from them because they are family. "the past is the past, people have flaws" is only valid for things that are actually in the past. Sounds like your parents' abuse would be much easier to deal with if it was a part of the past.