Truth be told, I have a cushy tech job and I'm still scared s_tless every day of losing everything. Also, economically speaking, I'm probably who should be havi

Truth be told, I have a cushy tech job and I'm still scared s_tless every day of losing everything. Also, economically speaking, I'm probably who should be having a kid right now. Hard no. Not with these risks/anxieties. Get sick, lose it all - I've experienced it first hand. I feel like I don't have any sort of social safety net. I need so much more than I do right now to responsibly have a child and actually provide for their future (in the US, in 2020).