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The handshake thing worries me a bit... that seems more in the category of things that many people rely on, but actually tell you very little about the person.
by jtheory 16y ago
The handshake thing worries me a bit... that seems more in the category of things that many people rely on, but actually tell you very little about the person.
Someone with a good handshake either:
* just naturally learned to shake hands in the way you like
* found out that handshakes are important to first impressions and spent time perfecting theirs (including maybe a handwarmer in the pocket...).
Does either of those things reveal any important traits?
People naturally have different levels of perspiration & circulation in their hands, particularly when nervous. Anyone going for a job interview they care about should be at least moderately nervous.
So someone might have a cold clammy handshake purely through genetics. How many strikes against them should that be? Firmness and eye contact are based on habits, generally -- again, the developer who's thinking ahead to the "important" parts of the interview will just give you the handshake they learned as a child. How many points against them should it be if it's very soft (because they were raised by an arthritic grandmother)?
Too much rambling for a small point, but I just want to say you should try to reserve judgment on exactly this kind of thing until they've had a chance to relax a bit, get talking, etc..
Personally, my handshake is probably pretty good, but I'm not going to be really at ease talking with you until we've been interacting for at least a few months. I've learned to fake it over the years (and keep calm enough in the face of strangers that I can think straight, for the most part...), but the hiring process is definitely harder on introverts.
I went through an phone interview a few months ago that included some quizzes, talking through solutions to invented problems, etc., and was glad she agreed I could hang up the phone while I thought (and took notes)... this resulted in a much better answer than I would have given if forced to think through it while on the phone with a stranger.