> People here are speaking about how gmail will "effectively spambox your mails by default". That's not been my experience It is mine. I used to have to take a

> People here are speaking about how gmail will "effectively spambox your mails by default". That's not been my experience It is mine. I used to have to take a proactive approach to email - send an email, and if I don't hear back in a timely manner, I check their MX records. If it's Google, I'd contact them out of band - yep... spamholed. These days, if it's important I'll contact out of band. If not, meh... I'm not going to bother just because of Google Knows Best. I'm over pandering to Google.