I know this is a stupid question but I'm going to ask it anyway. How do you learn to dance? Maybe I just have zero natural dance aptitude but ... I've taken m

I know this is a stupid question but I'm going to ask it anyway. How do you learn to dance? Maybe I just have zero natural dance aptitude but ... I've taken maybe 8 swing dance lessons and 12 salsa lessons and I found them extremely hard and worst part is I felt horrible being so bad at it because it's not fun for the other more skilled students to dance with an unskilled noob. It's that last part that's the most frustrating. One salsa instructor said to expect at least 18 months of lessons before being able to lead. That was before seeing how bad I was at it. Another salsa instructor pretty much just gave up. She didn't want to deal with noobs. I can jump around to the music at a rave all night. I'm sure I could learn video game dance (DDR or Just Dance) but getting past the point of being a disappointment in two person dance seems really difficult for some reason.